Alternatives

Every day we are forced under many circumstances to make choice and certainly every choice that we make comes at a price, something that we always hesitate to pay. Obviously it’s not always possible that every choice we make will result in a fruitful outcome, some may backfire. And at that moment we always look for someone else to put the blame on, instead of accepting that it was a choice made by me and whatever the consequence be of that choice there is only one person who should take the complete responsibility and that person too is me. I have always felt that it is far easier to make choices then to live with their outcomes. Why is that we always look for someone else to throw the blame on. Are we not mature or strong enough to handle the choices gone sour? Did someone force us to make the choices we made? This pops up another question. Can someone force us to make the choices? I am a small person to answer this question I guess. May be someone can or may be no one. Another question that comes to my mind is why blame at all, even oneself. So what if the outcome is not what was expected. May be that is how it was suppose to be. May be it is not the wrong but the right outcome. Why draw conclusions. Why not just accept it the way it is. Will this not make life a bit easier to live?